Community guidelines
BeHumanly is peer support: real people sharing what they've been through. These guidelines keep it a safe place for everyone.
- 1. Be kind
Everyone here is going through something. Write to people the way you'd want someone to write to you.
- 2. Share experience, not judgement
Talk about what happened to you and what helped, rather than telling others what they should do.
- 3. Never share contact details
No phone numbers, email addresses, social media handles or links, in posts, replies or chat. They're blocked automatically to keep everyone safe.
- 4. Respect anonymity
Don't try to work out who someone is, and don't share anything from BeHumanly that could identify a person.
- 5. No harmful advice
Don't encourage anything that could put someone at risk, and don't offer medical advice. Suggest a GP or professional instead.
- 6. Report, don't argue
If something feels wrong, report it and let a moderator deal with it.
BeHumanly is not therapy or a crisis service. If you or someone else is at risk, call Samaritans free on 116 123, text SHOUT to 85258, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option, or call 999 in an emergency.